How Protective are You of Your Siblings and Cousins *Older or Younger*

Are you protective of them; or, do you even care what happens to them?

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I've never really been extremely close with my sisters (older than me), but, none of us hate each other, though.

If someone ever tried to take advanage of them, I'd eitheir KICK ASS or take an ass-whoopin'! Either way, no one's fuckin' with my sisters.

I have two other step-sisters. One, who I've never met, and another who I see from time to time. I'd be upset to learn that something happened to one of them, especially the one I know; but, I honestly don't know if I'd flip my lid. Don't get me wrong, I love her, but, we're almost like strangers. I grew up around with my other two siters, so there's a different bond there.

i'M THE YOUNGEST of six, and I despise two of them and if something happened to either one of them, I more than likely wouldn't care, Now I'd said I'm a little protective of my sister that I live with because we're very close, and if someone did her wrong I'd kick their ass, but she can more than defend herself! I just really started back talking to my oldest brother and he's pretty cool, I'm starting to like him a little more.

I've gotten into fights over them so i'm really protective.

the only person allowed to slap my siblings around is me.

seeing that 90% of my cousins are female and younger, im kinda protective but i try not to be uberprotective without not staying away from the "big brother" aspect...that would be creepy. but if anyone tried to hurt them, id beat the holy hell out of em. my brother on the other hand, he can handle himself unless my help IS needed

I have quite a bit of cousins, I think. There are some, I don't even know, they could actually be condicered an "acquaintance", but, who gives a shit. Apart from them, I have one younger brother, who, I'm close to, but, as we got older, we became different in alot of ways. I'm only close to a few of my cousins, which I enjoy to see, we just live farther away, so that only happends once a year or so. I have two cousins that live in Vegas with me, I'm also closer to them...then, the ones I'm obviously "acquaintance" with, but one's deaf, so, they'res no way I can really talk to her, but, she likes me alot, so, it's not like we don't know eachother or something. Then, the other one started this touching shit recently, everytime I see him, he's always trying to touch me in some way, like, "trys not to make it obvious my ass is getting smacked".....though, I don't want to make a big deal out of it, I'm not one to cry about it to anyone, like his parents, that's just kind of kiddish to me. He just doesn't listen for shit.

I would care what happends to my family, if I'm close to them, if not, probrably not then. That's the way it is with everything to me though.

I get mad when people mention my family members. Regardless is just pisses me off a lot, I often smack people if they bother me.

I could care less about my little brother, he has excluded me so much from his life, i think we just grew apart while living in the same house.

Now my little cousins, one she is going to be 20 soon, i've known every boyfriend, every hook up everything. I've never played the over protective card, i've always been the open minded one, the one to meet all the boyfriends first. Because i've never been over protective she could tell me everything, asuring me that everything is aight.

While my too younger cousins who are oddly both turning 14 this year has labeled me as their favorite cousin and i do everything and anything for the both of them. Gotta love those two girls.

My other cousin who i haven't seen in 5 years has taken a liking to me and for some reason looks up to me, he is also an awesome kid.

So i am never over protective, i feel if i try sometimes they might push me away and keep secrets from me, but i assure them everytime i'm ready to kick ass when needed too.

I care about all of my siblings/cousins but I know that my older sister and older cousin can take care of themselves. If someone makes fun of them as a joke I wont be over protective but if they repeatedly do it, it gets annoying and I usually end up insulting them. With my younger sister (6 years old) and my younger cousin I'd be more protective.

CM Dead, Your Savior wrote:

seeing that 90% of my cousins are female and younger, im kinda protective but i try not to be uberprotective without not staying away from the "big brother" aspect...that would be creepy. but if anyone tried to hurt them, id beat the holy hell out of em. my brother on the other hand, he can handle himself unless my help IS needed

Understandable.

With my sisters, they handle things on their own and I'm not watching their every move being super nosy as fuck. However, if dude ever tries any funny shit, all hell is gonna break out.