Ever feel like an outsider?

You ever feel out of place or that you dont belong? Like when you're out with 2 friends who happen to be a couple, you ever feel like the 3rd wheel?

Sometimes i get that feeling. It's weird and makes me sad. Trying to find a place where I fit 100% is hard. You find something cool and try it out, but then you realize you dont fit in, so back to square one.

in middle school mostly, high school only when i didnt have someone i knew in class but that was rarely.

absolutley, I almost always feel like an outsider on this forum.

angelmessiah wrote:

absolutley, I almost always feel like an outsider on this forum.

that sucks. I think you're one of the coolest guys here.

I feel like an outsider here as well.

I deffinally feel different from others, but that's ok. I actually hate to be like everyone else.

When it comes to what I like & dislike, there are only a few people I can talk with & get a good response out of & not some stuck up bull shit. As for everyone else, expecially when I was in school, they're just....there.

I think people who want & look like everyone else, bore me, because most of the time they ACT like everyone else. I love to meet unique, fun different people.

angelmessiah wrote:

absolutley, I almost always feel like an outsider on this forum.

and why is that?

at high school, i got bullied and in no way did i bloody deserve it, i felt like i dont belong here

I feel like an outsider a lot. Especially at school, or when I am hanging with some girls from my sorority, am i definantly the outsider there.

awww your not an outisder here Keri ahaha

Oh I know LL. I actually feel like i do belong here.

I have, yes, but not normally, no.

Yep, In school and on some boards.

yes all the time and its always at school

No i've never felt that way.
In school i hang out with every clique so no not really .

I AM an outsider and revel in it

I felt so out of place two days ago, when I stayed over a "friend's" House, I was quiet most of the time I was there.

I usually always feel like an outsider especially in a group, I have no clue what to say. I prefer the one on one shit

YES! That's what messed me up, it was suppose to be a one on one thing, but then other people got added into the mix, and I kinda froze up and had nothing to say.

Yeah, I hate that shit. My friend would ask if I want to hang out and then once we got to his house he'd be like "Oh, so and so is here" It's like why ask someone if they want to hang out if you have other people there?

It happened with my best friend in Virginia when I went to visit last summer. This was the same day I found out my mom, sister, and grandma were in a car accident, she was at work and called on her break and I told her what happened and then she's like "Aw, that's so sad...anyway, I'm gonna have some people over tonight"

That's what happened to me Friday, I got a text as I was leaving out the door, telling me that the plans we made two weeks a had changed and other people would now be included and I was kinda pissed, and uncomfortable, they thought I was just acting Anti-Social, but I just get nervous around new people, so I didn't talk much the two days I was over there, but the sex was good! lol

I am glad to say that I don't ever feel like an alcoholic, nor do I feel like I am really tall and not want to put anyone over. I do feel lazy at times, but when I work, I do more than a few things.

I defently feel like in outsider at school.And also on this fourm just because some of you think I'm stupid dosent mean you have to rub it in my face.

The Hater Aggravator wrote:

That's what happened to me Friday, I got a text as I was leaving out the door, telling me that the plans we made two weeks a had changed and other people would now be included and I was kinda pissed, and uncomfortable, they thought I was just acting Anti-Social, but I just get nervous around new people, so I didn't talk much the two days I was over there, but the sex was good! lol

Yeah I'm usually nervous around new people as well and I get called weird for not talking sometimes. My friend is always telling me to talk and really it's easier said than done.

LOL, at least something was good!

Yeh, on my dad's side of the family. I didn't know nor did i like them (maybe except a few). Everyone else was light-skinned and have brown or black hair while i was dark-skinned and have copper colored hair.

QueenofIronFist wrote:

Yeh, on my dad's side of the family. I didn't know nor did i like them (maybe except a few). Everyone else was light-skinned and have brown or black hair while i was dark-skinned and have copper colored hair.

Being light-skinned is our most common trait. I dont have brown or black hair. I have dark red hair.

Cruxis wrote:

QueenofIronFist wrote:

Yeh, on my dad's side of the family. I didn't know nor did i like them (maybe except a few). Everyone else was light-skinned and have brown or black hair while i was dark-skinned and have copper colored hair.

Being light-skinned is our most common trait. I dont have brown or black hair. I have dark red hair.

Yeh, but still i was the black dot there. lol.