What is your biggest weakness?

Whether physical/mental/emotional, whatever. Mine is that I can't be straight foward/truthful to people whatsoever. I cannot say no to someone, or straight out reject them. I just for some reason can't be brutally honest with people and stand up for myself, because it creates too much drama/tension. I hate being straight foward, because I hate that it may hurt someone else.

I think when it comes down to people asking me to help them, i could be tired, i could be sleepy, i could be hungry, i can't deny them. My uncle used to call me every now and then to wash his car, i couldn't tell him no, i'd find myself making up escuses but in the end i just end up there because i feel guilty. It's a weakness i wish i never had.

I'm also very naive when it comes to guys, it takes one stupid complement, just one and i'm a bag of stupid, i get all goo goo and just well be an idiot and have this crush for no reason at all. It's something i need to stop.

Well that's about it......but there is a whole lot more flasws too me that make me weak.

I don't if it is really a weakness, though I have found it to be a reason I am alienated from people but..

I am as stubborn as a mule on various topics. 10 out of 10 times, I am NOT going to change my mind or my ways.

i have 0 self-esteem, self-confidence....my self-image is totally fucked. I hate just about everything about myself.

^Awww I know how you feel. You shouldnt feel that way. You are a gorgeus girl. You seem like an amazing mother.

Me-my confidence, Im too nice, dunno how to take up for myself, Im stubborn, I get jealous easly.

I'm short. It's a disability. I'm gonna make claim.

The Sexy Vixen wrote:

i have 0 self-esteem, self-confidence....my self-image is totally fucked. I hate just about everything about myself.

This

My biggest weakness is MONEY! I can never have enough of it.

i desire to be loved and accepted by EVERYONE. I will let people walk over me and use me if it means they like me and will be my friend.

i'm not joking either. i've sent $100 to a few people in an effort to keep them as friends. i've bought videogames and other things to gain the approval of others.

i need to be liked. bugs me when i'm not.

Fear of failure: retreating when I think the task is more than I am capable of dealing with.

Indecisiveness: I'll make a decision then change my mind a week or so later because I am not pleased with the immediate results.

Shimmer Mark wrote:

I really really really want to be included...like in everything. There is a group of people at work that always go out to lunch together. Every single time they get back, it irritates me. Not because they went, because they didn't invite me.

i'd have snatched you up in a heartbeat. At my job all the cashiers are like a little 'clique' and they always exclude me. it's depressed me to the point i have cried at work. so i know the feeling.

DNA. I hate being my father's son. POS!

Anger.

I'm sure some folks probably remember, unfortunately. Lol

Still a work in progress.

ah yes Jordan..i remember

I feel like I don't take too many things (other than school/work) seriously. I don't know if it's really a weakness or not, but it is something.