Reign To The Bow wrote:

it's hard trying to find someone in person, especially when you look like me.

Nonsense. You've got to put yourself out there. Kinda like this: "Hey, this is who I am. Not everyone will like me, for whatever reason. Whoever doesn't... your loss. Whoever does... has gained themselves someone special."

The fear of perception can be crippling. But whenever you make yourself vulnerable (putting the real you on display), you'll be in position to find someone to accept and love you... the Reign Bow in the Sky after the Rain. lol

The Asstastic wrote:

Reign To The Bow wrote:

it's hard trying to find someone in person, especially when you look like me.

Nonsense. You've got to put yourself out there. Kinda like this: "Hey, this is who I am. Not everyone will like me, for whatever reason. Whoever doesn't... your loss. Whoever does... has gained themselves someone special."

The fear of perception can be crippling. But whenever you make yourself vulnerable (putting the real you on display), you'll be in position to find someone to accept and love you... the Reign Bow in the Sky after the Rain. lol

i love that ! :P but ok dumb that down for me? am i supposed like just random give a speech lol? idunno.

unfortunately looks matter too much in this world..

you think i look gorgeous, sis (why, idk) yet no guy in my city will give me the time of day. my bf lives 4 hous away.

my advice is focus on you. find a part time job. get some new clothes and get your hair done so that you feel confident

then strut your confidence for the world. you're young. take time to focus on you. i keep telling you this over and over..now please just do it. FOCUS ON YOU!!!!

I agree with Vix, just be confident and you'll find the right person!

ive tried that, didnt work, so i just gave up, whats the use of impressin when you actually trie no one cared, so meh

I wanted to cry reading your post. Every word you wrote, felt like it was coming out of my own mouth. I know more than anyone how you feel.

Don't give up, you are still young, there is soo much hope for you. You don't want to be me in a few yours. If you give up, that will happen.

@Vee , my friends mom told me that, but she also told me that if i looked good sand tried to impressed id get someone , which didnt happen, but i guess i'd have to wait and see myself, i refuse to change myself for someone at all.

@kev awwwww i don't want to give up but, more and more i just ugh, but im going to keep trying if not i'll just wait (which i dont wanna)

Please don't wait. Because you'll end up like me.

Just don't give up, maybe take the advice everyone has been giving here.

Not much of a help in this department.

oce i acted more confident..i found Greg

trust me..it works..might tak some time..but it works. focus on you and find a part timejob...having some money wont hurt.

although i appear more confident i still have my fears...i usually only open up to you, sis..or my sis Ray..or Greg..or my big bro, Tai.

you can still have you fears..but put on that brave face for the world..and a guy will pick up on that.

I know Gregtold you..it took him some 25 years to find me..just keep your head up hun

now..FOCUS ON YOU!!!!

All the good ones seem to be taken.

You just have to fake the swag sometimes.

swag aint the problem , the problem is me
i try to lok good, i try to do something extra, and no results, absolutely nothing at all. so i think what the hell is the point in trying,

if you dontcare enough to try it will be near impossible to make someone else care about you

Party Poison wrote:

The Big V wrote:

Please don't wait. Because you'll end up like me.

Just don't give up, maybe take the advice everyone has been giving here.

Not much of a help in this department.

You. Move to New York. Someone's probably waiting for a guy like you.

lol why new York exactly?

All you can do is be the best you you can be.

I feel pain too.

The Big V wrote:

Party Poison wrote:

The Big V wrote:

Please don't wait. Because you'll end up like me.

Just don't give up, maybe take the advice everyone has been giving here.

Not much of a help in this department.

You. Move to New York. Someone's probably waiting for a guy like you.

lol why new York exactly?

its were the sugar daddys at